I should have pretended to sleep!
I woke up at 5:45 this morning, my wife was getting ready for work. I didnt need to get up as I am off work with a stomach bug (I will not go into detail) and could have stayed in bed for a few more hours.
I went for a pee and then decided to go to the the kitchen for a drink, when my wife got to the kitchen she asked my to get one of the boys sports bags (backpack) for her to put some sports clothing in for a departmental game of basketball she was taking part in today. I went and had a look and couldnt see anything, no wonder considering what a state the room is in!
I said she would need to take a carrier bag, she suggested I empty the eldests backpack so she cold use his bag, as he has another much bigger bag that he could use himself, I said no thias was unfair and she should use the carrier bag.
Apparently the carrier bag would be to heavy for hewr as she would have to hold it in her hand? rather than over the shoulder. She then announced she would get herself a small sports bag for such occasiosns (which are every 6 months or so), like the one she already bought herself but cannot find.
It is probably me but when she left pissed off and spitting and almost snapping my head off, I still cant see what I did wrong apart from get out of bed to get a drink!
Any clue? Was it tghat I was there? Was it that I couldnt solve the problem for her?
I remember a line in White men cant jump where the female carachter says "Just cos I tell you Im thirsty doesnt mean I want you to get me a drink, I just want you to know I am thirsty" does this apply? I want you to know theres a problem without fixing it? Why tell me if you dont want me to fix it? Or was this one of those occasions where I was ment to fix it?
Im sure this whole situation is my fault and Ill either apologise for it later and it will be my fault because I dont know what I will be apologising for, or I will bite back and it will be my fault because I was not sensitive enough when she needed me to be understanding?
We will have to wait and see.
D
I went for a pee and then decided to go to the the kitchen for a drink, when my wife got to the kitchen she asked my to get one of the boys sports bags (backpack) for her to put some sports clothing in for a departmental game of basketball she was taking part in today. I went and had a look and couldnt see anything, no wonder considering what a state the room is in!
I said she would need to take a carrier bag, she suggested I empty the eldests backpack so she cold use his bag, as he has another much bigger bag that he could use himself, I said no thias was unfair and she should use the carrier bag.
Apparently the carrier bag would be to heavy for hewr as she would have to hold it in her hand? rather than over the shoulder. She then announced she would get herself a small sports bag for such occasiosns (which are every 6 months or so), like the one she already bought herself but cannot find.
It is probably me but when she left pissed off and spitting and almost snapping my head off, I still cant see what I did wrong apart from get out of bed to get a drink!
Any clue? Was it tghat I was there? Was it that I couldnt solve the problem for her?
I remember a line in White men cant jump where the female carachter says "Just cos I tell you Im thirsty doesnt mean I want you to get me a drink, I just want you to know I am thirsty" does this apply? I want you to know theres a problem without fixing it? Why tell me if you dont want me to fix it? Or was this one of those occasions where I was ment to fix it?
Im sure this whole situation is my fault and Ill either apologise for it later and it will be my fault because I dont know what I will be apologising for, or I will bite back and it will be my fault because I was not sensitive enough when she needed me to be understanding?
We will have to wait and see.
D
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